Despite the name, this site is less about answers than it is about asking the right questions.

My goal is to lift up the questions we all feel in our hearts. The questions that maybe we don't ask our family or friends or co-workers. Why me? How did I end up with so much, when others have so little? What did I do to deserve the blessings, and riches, and opportunities I have?

How often we forget how fortunate we are. If you're reading this, you are literate (37% of those in low-income countries are not). You have access to technology (86% of the world doesn't). You have enough leisure time to spend on sites like this. And you have enough mental capacity to be curious and thoughtful about your world.

When my son was about 10 years old, he complained one day, one time too often, that life was not fair. Who knows, maybe he hadn't gotten the latest video game as quickly as he wanted, or something else equally terrible. And I reminded him that, indeed, life is not fair. If it were fair, really fair, he would live in a place where he had no shoes, or no chance for an education, or maybe he would be working 10 hours a day for something to eat, instead of standing at the refrigerator door choosing among the overly abundant options. Life is horribly unfair, and he and I, and you, have landed on the side of it that is probably more than we deserve.

So this site is about asking what we do with that, and why it's so hard for us to remember just how blessed we are, and why it's so hard for us to turn that from discomfort into positive action.

How do you give back? Or, rather, how do we know we should give back? What is it that changes us to the thankful version of, “Life isn't fair.”

Can we ask each other? And by asking, can we make it different?

Let's find out.